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It's heart-breaking to hear about situations where a parent feels forced to take extreme measures, such as risking imprisonment, in order to have a relationship with their children. Parental alienation and custody battles can be emotionally and psychologically draining for all involved, especially the children caught in the middle.
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If you or someone you know is experiencing difficulties in co-parenting or facing challenges in maintaining a relationship with their children, seeking support from professionals, support groups, or trusted individuals can provide valuable guidance and assistance during difficult times.
Remember, the well-being and happiness of the children should always be the primary focus, and parents should strive to create a nurturing and supportive environment for them to thrive, even in the face of adversity.
You'll remember, during that crazy time in the history of mankind, that being Covid-19, one of the main side effects that people were talking about was mental health. Even the Duke of Cambridge along with his brother Prince Harry, have been advocating for men’s’ mental health for several years now, and then there’s men just like us, me and you…!
Well, I was told by the family court judge in my case, that if I did this and tell you the world my story, of what has happened to me, and why I’ve not seen my son's now since May 2017, that she would lock me up.
She told me this after being told that I'd built this website, "Fatherless Britain," straight after "committing a major denial fraud" right at the beginning of the hearing which allowed for this injustice to happen!!!
Fixing Fatherless Britain
In an episode of dispatches aired on Tueday 20th of July 2021 reporter Louise Tickle highlighted the fact that it is actually a criminal offence to report on anything goes on within the Family Court due to a law that was written back in 1960, so an individual will be charged with contempt of court.
This is how they set me up to fail from the very beginning…
The last time I saw my sons, was when I took them to school back in May 2017 as usual. They were 9 and 11 at the time. Someone close to me saw one of them a couple of years ago and they were told, that mum and the social worker had told them both that they’re not allowed to see me, their Dad.
On that day when I went to pick my sons up from school later that afternoon. I'd made them one of Daddy’s home seasoned chicken, with Mac and cheese. One of their favourites at the time.
As I approached the school, I saw a friend, another father from the school when I received a text message from my ex-wife.
The text read as, “I’ve picked the boys up from school, they’re with me and they’re fine” and that was it. I’ve not seen them since. So in affect she kidnapped them as she wasn’t due to pick them up until the Thursday of that week, along with the fact that it had been confirmed of shared parenting that same day at the last of three Child Protection Meetings.
So, in that one swift afternoon, I went from being a full time Dad, to nobody. Just a man pining for his kids and I’m just supposed to just get over it…! Man up as they say! Mmmm...
Earlier that day I’d attended the third and last child protection meeting.
So here it is
From the very beginning I was set up to fail starting with Waltham Forest Children’s Social Services.The standard procedure when the police are called to a domestic incident and young children are present, is on the second occasion they will inform the children’s social services.
There were three arguments in total between myself and my ex-wife over a period of twelve years. On two of these occasions the police were called, this is when my what was already a nightmare, escalated. The first time she called the police and on the second occasion I called the police.
After the first two arguments when the police were called, she created a third argument out of nothing, then went to the social services saying that she was frightened of me. It wasn’t long after this that I discovered our children now had a social worker, but no one had told me or given me any details. All appointments had been arranged via my ex-wife. The Social Worker never once got in touch with me to get my version of events. I had to chase them to find out who their social worker was, and once I had the details, I arranged a meeting with her. She then went on holiday a day or so later after our meeting.
The first child protection meeting
In the first child protection meeting, the Chairwoman who would be chairing the meeting known to me as Rose, took me into a side interview room before the meeting began. She said that she’d heard about my father's recent passing. Then she asked me if I was ok to continue. She then continued telling me what the meeting was about, expressing that if I needed a break, to feel free to get up and leave the room at any time. It was at this point, it was made clear to me that I was in a Child Protection Meeting, which unbeknown to me. There were three Child Protection Meetings, all off which I attended.The Chairwoman then took me into the meeting room and opened the meeting by introducing herself, then all who were in attendance introduced themselves starting with my ex-wife going round the table, to the accessing Social Worker, the assigned Social Worker who was taking the case, the former Primary School Headmistress, a female Police Officer, the Minute Taker, and myself the Father. To conclude, there were seven women along with myself, Dad.
The Chairwoman opened the meeting by stating that the purpose of this meeting was due to domestic abuse/violence committed by myself towards my ex-wife, of which I knew wasn't a true representation of what had happened. So a serious allegation had been made against me, but prior to this meeting neither before or since have I ever been arrested, cautioned or legally chastised convicted, for domestic abuse or violence, or any other allegation of violence, what so ever.
In order to be transparent for those of you taking the time to read this, let me explain.
In 2012, I returned a car that I'd purchased that wasn't as described. The two guys who were brothers who had sold me the car, tried to steal £1200 from me. Although initially I'd been found guilty of ABH at a Magistrates Court. this decision was overturned on appeal at the Crown Court. It was proved that I was defending myself against the two brothers who were in fact rogue car dealers and had pretended that they were selling me their mother's disabled car. But the Police Officer failed to out line of the facts relating to my case, as the fact is, I was proven innocent so there for it's not even supposed to come up for a fact.
I now understand that what the Police Officer did, is known as the Propagation of Misinformation. The fancy buzz words used today to describe professionals when they’re found to be lying. They use this sophisticated technique to conceal the truth.
The Police Officer then continued to state that I was involved in another violent situation back in 2008. However, this also was not factual. This led me to put my hand up again in order to verbalise my response to this allegation. But once again, I was quickly shouted down as I being told to be quite. I was unable to talk in order to defend myself. To be clear, the Chairwoman is the very same woman who initially appeared to show a level compassion and empathy, regarding the recent loss of my Father. She was now being the very opposite, as she was being extremely stern by telling me to be quite and put my hands down. This is actually in legal terms known as a Denial Fraud although I’d actually stated the fact that it wasn’t true. In doing this and committing this Denial Fraud, she is denying me my right to rebut this incorrect information that had been stated as a fact, and not allowing me represent myself appropriately and fairly. I was forced into silence and feeling oppressed, and powerless to defend myself. I was fully aware that if I attempted to defend myself, I would be stereotyped as being an aggressive, argumentative, uncooperative individual. These are the types of words that are used to discredit an individual, who is attempting to defend themselves with the truth, especially if the individual is showing any form of emotional stress due the situation of this environment.
Although I’d stated that wasn’t true, this gave them the room and the opportunity to write down, that I'd been known for violence for purposes should the case go to Court, as it did in my case.
Ms Lyndsey Lampard Children’s former Primary School Head Teacher
All of what your about to read involving Ms Lyndsey Lampard and other individuals is detailed and extremely important, as it shows the head teachers influence in the outcome in the Court.Around the same time as this first Child Protection Meeting, Ms Lyndsey Lampard wrote a report for the Children’s Social Services. This was around December 2016.
There is one paragraph in particular which takes up the whole box in a section of this form. Ms Lyndsey Lampard wrote in her this statement, “There have been a number of parents who have complained of feeling intimidated by Mr Clark, however neither myself or any of my staff have ever felt this way about Mr Clark,” end of sentence.
Around March 2017, Ms Lyndsey Lampard started saying things in what is known as a 'Core meeting' at the school with Social Workers present, which was such a turnaround it’s disgusting. Her initial sentiment regarding me drastically changed. Obviously the Social Work's attending would record all comments made by writing these things down.
One of the things that Ms Lyndsey Lampard stated in one of these Core Meetings was that in February 2017, a ten year old boy was so frightened of Mr Clark that he brought a knife into the school.
What Ms Lyndsey Lampard failed to highlight in the meeting was that, the same ten year old boy had recently joined the school after having issues at his former school, and that the boy was also known to the social services.
Ms Lyndsey Lampard also failed to outline the fact that my eldest child had been experiencing very serious issues regarding being bullied. A particular incident of bullying took place in February 2017 involving the same ten year old boy who had brought the knife into the school, along with a group of other boys.
Now the mother of this ten year old boy was talking to my ex-wife a few days after this incident of bulling on the phone, and I was asked if I would talk to her son on her behalf. She was having issues with him at home and he wasn’t seeing his own father at that time. I agreed and between the two of them they arranged for us all to meet up at a local café, which took place about ten to fifteen minutes later that day being Friday after school had finished.
As agreed I spoke to him regarding the bulling of my son, he said he understood but didn’t agree with what I was saying. The fact that he was there with the other boys and he knew what he was witnessing was wrong, and he didn’t go and call a teacher for help makes guilty by association. As he started to get upset, I opened my arms and he literally jumped into my arms giving me a massive daddy type hug. So therefore I knew that I had done my job and had given him food for thought in relation to his behaviour.
The following day, that being Saturday, his mother was talking to me on the phone. She was at Tesco’s and was asking me for some advice about what type of vacuum cleaner to buy for her eldest son who was living in a care home, as he had learning disabilities. I mentioned that I was in the park with my two son's playing football. She then asked her son if he wanted to play football with us and before I knew it, she’d left Tesco’s and dropped her son off to me at the park and said when we’ve finished playing football, we could just leave him at the top of the road and he’d make his own way home. With him being just ten years old, we decided to walk him to his door and said good bye as he went indoors.
Now bearing all of this in mind, does it sound like this ten year old boy was really so scared of me? Also bearing in mind that he was involved in a serious incident of bullying the week before, along with some other boys who ganged up on my son, I have to ask the question, who was the knife really meant for!
But like I said, Ms Lyndsey Lampard isn’t writing or telling the whole story.
Prior to my relationship troubles and breaking up with my ex-wife, I had a very healthy relationship with Ms Lyndsey Lampard. It was such that with her permission, members of her staff would often print things off for me at the school when my printer wasn’t working or had ran out of ink. Ms Lyndsey Lampard also joined me with my neighbour Ann Korner, her former colleague and her good friend in attending Question time hosted by David Dimbleby, arranged by myself. Ms Lyndsey Lampard and Anne Korner also attended my wedding on my invitation. Ann Korners other daughter Esme Maddison also attended the wedding along with her husband Dean, and even helped in serving the food.
David Dimbleby, Nicholas Clark, Fatherless Britain |
The second child protection meeting
The second child protection meeting was chaired by a man named Andrew Calderwood. He took me into the same interview room as Rose had done before. Prior to going into the meeting, he asked a series of questions and although I answered truthfully, he was totally dismissive of all my answers. So I knew at that point things were heading in the wrong direction for me.The meeting started and he the new Chair, Andrew Calderwood, spent the best part of around twenty minutes plus going through the case papers.
When the meeting got started, he the new Chair attempted to propagate more misinformation and then committed another denial fraud. He stated that I had been known for violence in recent years on three occasions, again, not allowing me to rebut this. He was literally shouting at me, “Well that’s what it says here!” he said. So as the Chair person proceeded to assassinate my character, my ex-wife then decided to join and started shouting me at me, and I was forced to sit there and shut up, and put up with all this abuse coming at me from all directions, bearing in mind I had been told I was unable to talk or defend myself.
Letter of Complaint to Ms Lyndsey Lampard
I wrote a letter of complaint to Ms Lyndsey Lampard prior to the third Child Protection Meeting in May of 2017, to which I understand she was legally obliged to respond to all points of my complaint, to which she did not.Stage - two Complaint to the School Governing Board
I made a stage - 2 complaint about Ms Lyndsey Lampard to the school governing board, to no avail. My neighbour Ann Korner is Ms Lyndsey Lampard’s former colleague and they are good friends. Ann Korners other daughter Saffron Hillier, is also a good friend to Ms Lyndsey Lampard and she sits on this board of school governors.Complaint to all the heads of Waltham Forest Council
I contacted Ofsted to complain about Ms Lyndsey Lampard and they told me to contact to the local authority.I sent an email to all the heads at Waltham Forest;
I received a reply from Reginald Coley.
He starts of his reply in his email to me by saying and he’s responding on behalf of all recipients.
This is the last paragraph which reads as;
The third child protection meeting
The third Child Protection Meeting was extremely formal compared to the previous meetings, because not only had I brought a male Advocate along with me, but the fact that I had written a letter of complaint about Andrew Calderwood in relation to his dismissive / passive / aggressive attitude towards me seeded to bring a different tone to this particular meeting. He sweepingly mentioned that he'd received my letter of complaint, however throughout the entire meeting my letter was never discussed or mentioned again.Dear Andrew Calderwood;
Please find attached my personal statement regarding the way in which I felt I was treated in the last child protection meeting from yourself, as I personally felt that your manner towards me was pre-judged, bias focused and passive aggressive.
I look forward to your open response in regards to the content of the attachment, as I would like to know your thoughts on the matter. I don't feel that I was given the proper or fare grounds to justify the facts addressed at me.
Yours sincerely
Nicholas Clark
My Application to the court
Prior to May 2017, myself and my ex-wife were co-parenting our children, but living at different addresses.In this application hearing the Judge, paused the hearing while he left the Court and contacted Waltham Forest Social Services. When he came back, I was given the opportunity to address the Court. In doing so I stated the problems that I was having with my ex-wife regarding our children, as I believe her actions was primarily to get at me, when the Judge interrupted me raising his voice such that, it would be conceived as aggressive if I had addressed the Court in the same manner saying. “I’ve heard enough.” And with that, he ended the hearing instructing the beginning of the Court Custody Hearing Case.
Ex-wife granted a non-molestation order
In another hearing that I wasn’t privy to, from my understanding the same Judge who had denied me a Non-Molestation Order, granted a Non-Molestation Order to my ex-wife.A Non-Molestation Order is a legal document where the plaintiff states all the facts of why they need this imposed to protect them, highlighting all abuses if any, and reasons for fear of the other party.
In a number of hearings before the actual custody hearing that was heard in May 2018, from memory, having spoken to two different Judges, I asked them why I still wasn't allowed to see my children, and every time I was told the same thing as it was due to the statements made by my ex-wife.
Cafcass officer Laura Dean
It was at the Court hearing which took place in September 2017 that I first met Laura Dean, Cafcass Officer of the Family Court High Holborn, and Social Worker at Barking and Dagenham Social Services. At this hearing the Judge ordered a section 7 report to be completed of which Laura Dean was in instructed to undertake. The next hearing was due to take place in January 2018 of which this section 7 was due to be completed (as previously mentioned above).I received an anonymous phone call around October 2017, from a woman who refused to identify herself.
December 2017 I became concerned as I hadn’t heard from Laura Dean in regards to the section 7 report, so I began calling her in a careful systemised manner. I initially didn’t have any contact details for Laura Dean although she’d taken my mobile number at the Court hearing in September 2017 when I first met her. I was able to get her office number along with her managers’ office number and the department floor number by phoning the main reception number at Barking and Dagenham Social Services.
I would typically call Laura Dean in the morning, and because I couldn't get through to her, I would then call her manager's number and then the department's number. On each occasion I would leave a message and I would then leave it a day or so and would repeat this process. I was made to understand that if I called a Social Worker too often, that it would be used against me and they would say that that’s how I would’ve treated my ex-wife.
As time went by I grew increasingly anxious and concerned about the lack of contact from Laura Dean, along with the fast approaching court hearing in January. I suspected that the anonymous phone call that I’d received in October, was in fact Laura Dean. So I decided to call Laura Dean withholding my number as I suspected that she was deliberately not taking my calls, in order to say she wasn’t able to complete the section 7 as I was unreachable. The phone rang out until an answering machine or service took the call. I hung up and redialled again and Laura Dean answered the phone. This took place about a week or so before Christmas 2017, and I’d never not spent Christmas without my children from the moment that they were born. A few days later I got a missed call from one of her concerned work colleagues responding to one of my messages, so I called her back.
Application for Legal Aid and then Pro Boner
The first major argument myself and my ex-wife had was on our third wedding anniversary where she dislocated my finger and I had to attend hospital to have it relocated. My ex-wife came with me. When I arrived at hospital and was being questioned in regard to how it happened, due to my ex-wife being there I didn't feel comfortable in disclosing the truth as I was afraid of the repercussions. The repercussions being she would disappear with our children. However when I was alone with the radiologist and was questioned, I told them the truth. As the radiologist is a specialist doctor, and my understanding is that my claim regarding my ex-wifes actions, should have been recorded and handed over to the appropriate authorities of which it wasn't.My Email request for Court Bundle to ex-wife's Solicitor
I note the last contact made to me was via email on the 9th of March with bundle for hearing on the 12th of March. I make note of no bundle or instruction dates for two day hearing provided as of yet.
I'm kindly requesting you provide a hard copy bundle as well as electronic email version as soon as possible along with court hearing dates along with acknowledgement of this email please.
I would also ask you to respect my right of my quite enjoyment.
I give you no permissions or anybody representing your client to contact out of the context of the children's proceedings or to add any additional instructions of informations to such letters addressed to my email or at my home address.
Any further contact outs the context of the children proceedings would be a trespass of my quite enjoyment.
In light of same I require that you cease and desist.
Let this document serve as legal notice
Yours sincerely
Ex-wife's Solicitors reply;
I note the contents of your email .
Kindly confirm how you wish us to liaise with you as the post we are sending you has been returned.
I await to hear from you
Yours sincerely
My reply;
Please note the content of my requests in my email are very clear. To date you have chosen not to meet key areas of my requests of the content of the bundle requests and the court hearing dates.
Court Bundle Fatherless Britain |
From memory, a 400 page document/bundle!
Family Court Hearing Started in May 2018
At the start of the Court hearing in May 2018, I addressed the Court requesting an adjournment as despite my request by email, I hadn’t been provided with the Court Bundle in sufficient time. My ex-wife’s Legal Counsel then replied, “Your honour, I forwarded the Court Bundle to Mr Clark via email a few days ago, he could have downloaded it and printed it off”. Immediately the Judge she replied. "I agree the case will continue."So right there and then at the beginning of the hearing, the Judge has just committed a denial fraud right at the beginning of the case.
Had I been given the opportunity to respond I would’ve explained that I was in the Court the day before handing in my court papers and that when I got home, there was a recorded delivery card on the door mat which I assumed was the Court bundle. It turned out that I was correct. It had been posted on the Wednesday afternoon, the Thursday I was at the court delivering my papers and the court case started on the Friday. Haven spoken spoken to individual people within the law profession after the court case, I was informed that this is normal behaviour in order to gain an advantage over the other party. In plain English, it was designed to make me look incompetent in not being able to take care of my affairs.
My ex-wife’s Legal Counsel then told the Court that I’d built a website called Fatherless Britain, and made a number of videos and posted them on the website. He went on to say that he had the downloaded videos for the Judge to view.
He then started to berate the videos describing them as rants, painting a picture of an individual who is anti establishment, where his main focus was upon highlighting the phrase that I used, that being, 'at the stroke of a judges pen' as being against the establishment. The Judge then asked me if I had an issue with the video being viewed in Court. I replied that I had no issue, as I’d already experienced this man telling an untruth about a conversation with myself in a previous hearing in September 2017.
After watching one video, the Judge then asked me if I was recording at that present time. I replied no. She then warned me that if I make and publish anymore videos or write anything pertaining to my case, that she would have me locked up.
To be clear and as a matter of transparency;
I’d made a video which was designed to address men’s mental health and the unspoken high suicide rate as a result of Parental Alienation. In this video I included clips of a recording showing Laura Dean the Cafcass Officer, seemingly deliberately avoiding my calls, then telling me that her job is to ascertain whether contact should allowed between my children and myself, and asking me what contact looks like should I ever see my children again.
Laura Dean Cafcass officer of Holborn Family Court and Barking and Dagenham Social Worker then takes the stand
Laura Dean told the Court a number of things, one of them being that I’d shown no interest in my children what so ever in the interview with her, and all I wanted to talk about was my ex-wife. This wasn’t true because when I had previously been interviewed by Laura Dean, my conversation was solely focused upon the boys and discussing my ex-wife. At that time I recall that Laura Dean then interrupted my conversation saying, 'no that’s fine, as they both go hand in hand and it gives an insight as to how things got to this point.'Laura Dean also told the court how she found my behaviour to be odd and strange when being interviewed at my home, as I laughed when she told me that my eldest son was upset when I didn’t give him a birthday card. She was correct because it was the first time in my child's entire life that he didn't receive a birthday gift from me. And the reason for that was because I was told that if I were to ever make contact with my children, I would be arrested bearing in mind the previous Judge had granted my ex-wife a Non-Molestation Order.
I then asked Laura Dean if she knew that I was recording the interview's we had. She then replied that she now had been made aware that I was recording the interviews. I then asked her what her thoughts were about it? Her response clearly showed that she was not happy with my recording I replied, "So what about the lack of truth from yourself, can you not understand why someone like myself would record an interview with yourself?" She said something along the same lines as before, suggesting that I wasn’t being genuine and honest.
Laura Dean went on to make her recommendations, that being of supervised phone calls once a month for six months.
At no time did the Judge ask to listen to any of my recordings of the interviews with the Cafcass Officer Laura Dean. All the Judge did was seem to ask Laura Dean questions that were easy for Laura Dean to answer, giving legitimacy to her evidence.
My ex-wife taking the Stand
When my ex-wife took the stand I was told by the Judge that I could only question her about the two arguments we had when the Police attended my home.To be clear, I had based all of my arguments around this Non-Molestation Order, and now I was not being allowed to question my ex-wife about her claims and any of the details in this Non-Molestation Order, which is the very document that had stopped me from seeing my children in the first place. And let’s not forget back in September 2017, when I asked the Judge who'd authorised this Non-Molestation Order, about my right to challenge it, he clearly advised me that in his opinion it should be dealt with along with this hearing.
In questioning my ex-wife, I asked her what we were arguing about in the first argument. She replied, "we was arguing about you accusing me of having an affair." I asked what else we was arguing about. She replied, "that’s all we was arguing about." I then asked her so the children wasn’t the subject of the argument, she replied no. I then asked what type of argument was it, was it raised voices, shouting or was we screaming or what? She replied it was just raised voices.
The Police Offer Amba Reynelds who was carrying out an investigation had phoned me a few weeks before hand, and told me that her investigation was over. I told the officer that you do realise that my ex-wife was denning what we were arguing about don’t you? The officer repeated, "Mr Clark the investigation is over."
I took the stand
As I had stated at the beginning of the case, I didn’t have a court bundle, so the Judge gave me some spare pages from her bundle that she felt was relevant, and then asked my ex-wife and her Legal Counsel whether they had any spare pages of which they both gave me. So now I'm in court fighting for the right be a Father to my children, yet I've not even been given a court bundle and everyone is giving me spare copies.When I was being questioned, I pointed out to the Judge that there was a transcript of a conversation between myself and my ex-wife in the papers that I had delivered to the Court the day before, and if she read it, she’d see that my ex-wife had chosen to go down this particular route because I wouldn’t take her back. The Judge, she replied, 'What papers, I haven’t been given any papers from you.' I then stood up and pointed to the said papers that were in front of her on her desk. She glared at me, to which I sat back down. The questioning kept coming from my ex’s Legal Counsel to no avail as I replied to a number of his questions by saying, "Well it’s your client that has been witnessed lying." Then the Judge said "I’ll decide who’s lying or not lying" and then she made a statement reading from my papers that I’d delivered the day before. She said, “I’ll be the Judge of whether this should go to the High Court or not." At another point she went on to mention that she had 'received a bunch of papers in a very small font size' which could indicate that she never read it.
So in one hand the Judge said she hadn’t received my paperwork. She then went on to say that it was unfair that the other parties' Council hadn’t been given a copy. But what about me not having a court bundle from the very beginning and deliberately being made to look incompetent. So initially the Judge stated that she hadn't received any papers from myself, however she had them right there in front of her on her desk.
My ex-wife’s Legal Counsel said Mr Clark had been known to the Police for violence on more than one occasion. I replied that’s not true, I have a letter from Cafcass that states that I have no safe guarding convictions and asked if I could be excused from the stand in order to get the letter of which I did. In other words I do not have a violent history, I showed it to the Judge. She looked at it with a condescending glare and made no comment.
My ex-wife's Legal Counsel continued to attempt to assassinate my character. I then showed the Judge the document which highlighted to the Judge where Ms Lyndsey Lampard stated that "There had been a number of parents who have complained of feeling intimidated by Mr Clark. However neither myself nor any of my staff have ever felt this way about Mr Clark, and all of the parents that have described Mr Clark in this way, could all be described in the same manner themselves."
We resumed after lunch and the Legal Counsel continued to diminish my character as he said that it had been made known to Mrs Lampard that there were disagreements between other parents and myself. These disagreements where made known to Mrs Lampard by myself as we had a good friendship where I would openly discus a difference of opinion between other parents and myself. Things had always remained civil between all parents involved. Prior to this time, I had numerous meetings with Mrs Lampard regarding the bulling of my boys. It had been made known to her by myself that my children had been racially abused as they had been called the 'colour of poo' by these children, but no action was taken.
The Judge's summing up
The Mental affects of Parental Alienation
Allotment fun with Fatherless Britain's Sons
Fatherless Britain sons and Mini-Beasts
Fatherless Britain teaching his sons how to ride their bikes
Fatherless Britain gets a new nick-name
Above is a picture which was taken at the Natural History Museum . We entered what is known as the Brontosaurus room and on this day I gained a couple of nick-names! It was amazing to see these huge dinosaurs with skin, swaying back and fourth and roaring. I felt one of my sons clinging around my leg, I asked him "What's the matter boy?" As he cowered behind me he pointed and muttered "Dad look!" So I made up a Daddy story and said to him, "Oh don't worry about old Bronto, he is my mate, I went to school with him". He then asked me "Does that mean you are a dinosaur Dad?" From that day Daddy was a dinosaur or an old fossil. My sons also gave me the nick-name Old Goat, and we would always be laughing and joking about it. But one day when they called me Old Goat, I told them that I was proud of that nick-name, because when I explained the abbreviated meaning of Goat, the expression on their little faces is forever cemented in my memory! These are some of the fun times that I will never forget with my boys.Life Long Affects of Parental Alienation BBC Report February 2020
Remedies
- Unlimited financial resources provided via the Government in regards to legal fees and legal costs.
- A full public and open investigation into the operations of Waltham Forest Social Services in relation to my case specifically, along with all other agencies and parties involved.
- All parties to be held legally accountable within the findings of the actions taken, or the lack of actions not taken, with immediate actions taken in charges brought in charges and sentencing as apposed to usual public farce excuses of lessons will be learnt, and recommendations, where none of the guilty parties suffer any form consequences of incarceration.
- I also understand that based upon my experiences as described and detailed here, these are known as state frauds. Therefore I am automatically entitled to the Protection of the Crown, along with full funding for all Court Transcripts and Recordings of all Court hearings, along with all costs for full representations in all specific areas of law required.
- Prime Minister's, Theresa May 2016 - 2019, Boris Johnson 2019 – 2022, Liz Truss 2022, Rishi Sunak 2022 - present along with former leader Iain Duncan Smith and deputy PM, Dominic Raab. As I'm sure you can understand, I do not wish for any of the said names mentioned here to attempt to make any form of contact with me in any shape or form.
- If the said mentioned names wish to contact me. This should be arranged at my convenience in an environment of my choice along with any independent individual's of my choice. ~ Nicholas Clark Fatherless Britain
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Good luck Nick. A fight worth fighting. No Father should go through what you have been through. Best wishes
ReplyDeleteThank you, yes I agree as tough as it may be. A fight worth fighting as the results go onto impact on the children lives, and their children an so on.
DeleteExcellent article and description of events Nicholas. Thank you. We are getting so close to this class action against the courts and all involved now. Hold strong brother friend colleague star light
ReplyDeleteThank you Jake for your continued support my friend, blessings to you brother
DeleteThis is a very good and thorough description of how things transpired according to Nicholas. I hope Ian Duncan Smith can rectify this terrible and unfair situation by bringing accountability and justice. It seems so hypocritical that good fathers can be treated in this unfair manner when terrible, abusive parents are not regulated properly as we have seen in recent tragic events. The system is obviously not working! There also needs to be compensation for the pain and suffering of Nick and also his children who have gone without a father for so long. I wish you all the best.
ReplyDeleteThank you Yvonne. I also hope that Iain Duncan Smith and Dominic Raab, the current appointed Deputy Prime Minister, Lord Chancellor, and Secretary of State for Justice, will deal with this acropetally in actually holding all of the individual professionals and departments all accountable, for their actions, or lack of actions.
DeleteYou also mentioned in relation to terrible abusive parents. From experience it would seem that the social serves and Cafcass officers have no accountability, and they know this. That's not to say all social workers are terrible, but look at the list as it continues to grow.
Baby P, Arthur Labinjo-Hughes, Star Hobson, Amina-Faye Johnson, Victoria Adjo Climbié, Bady Teddy Thomas Mitchel, of which we've told his sad story, the link is here. And the list just keeps growing!
Where were the social services?
http://www.fatherlessbritain.uk/2022/01/baby-teddy-thomas-mitchell-death.html
Great post Nick. I can relate to what you talk about. Good luck
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Thank you Nick, I've spoken to many and it would seem as though many can relate, thank you.
DeleteAll the best Nicholas, I hope you get the results from your unwavering determination.
ReplyDeleteGood luck.
Thank you Bartholomew, it's much appreciated my friend.
DeleteI first met Nick around 2015, I'm a self employed estate and letting agent.
ReplyDeleteNick popped into my shop introducing himself canvassing telling me that he could help me save some money on my utilities, both at home and in my business, I wasn't interested at the time.
Nick wasn't deterred, he would pop in and say hello when passing by. I got to know Nick quite well. His a very likeable character and wasn't pushy with his business, which I liked about him.
I became a customer of Nicks at my home address.
Nick continued to pop in although he didn't need to, often with his two sons and sometimes his ex wife. His sons would shake my hands on saying hello which I observed was from Nicks guidance.
They seemed to be a very close family, both him and his ex wife with their son's. So when Nick told me that they were splitting up, I was shocked really surprised.
Nick always demonstrated good family values and his love and devotion for both his son's was clear to see.
I have great admiration for Nick, in the way that he has carried and conducted himself throughout his troubles. It's clear to see from this article that the family division of the judiciary system have been legally abusing him, as I've been a witness first hand of Nicks character and parenting skills of which is again clearly demonstrated in this article.
I hope this can be rectified and individuals involved held accountable for their actions.
Paolo
Thank you Paolo, yes I remember the look on your face when I was telling you.
DeleteShe was looking for a property locally so as to make it easy for the boys to be able visit and go between the two of us. When she saw the cost of private rental properties, she continued telling more stories in order to get help in housing from the local authority.
Social housing is an issue within the UK so as a result, many a strained couples go on to claim domestic abuse or violence in order to gain assistance in being rehoused via local councils.
It's an abuse of local resources, and makes it harder for those that are in actual desperate need of escaping, genuine domestic abuse and violence which goes onto alienating one of the parents from the children.
All the best to you Nick, this is indeed the fight worth to fight. l whole heartedly support you and pray that justice will be served. keep it up
ReplyDeleteThank you Siphe Dyani. I truly appreciate your support in taking the time to read my story, and in posting a comment. Apologises for the late reply.
DeleteAll the best ~ #FatherlesBritain
A touching, harrowing and sadly common experience. Please stay strong.
ReplyDeleteThank you AutoHelm. Thank you for your support in taking the time to read about my experience, and in taking the time to post a comment, along with your good wishes. It's truly appreciated.
DeleteAll the best ~ #FatherlessBritain
What choked me up was your comment about 3 or 4 of the teachers at your children's former school now say Hello to you and you are grateful for their compassion. You deserve a lot more than that! Well done for your strength of character in never giving up your fight for justice and fair play. Elaine Funk
ReplyDeleteThank you Elain. I was well received by the majority of the teachers at my sons former primary school. As we know, life can be cruel, and its only by digging deep in being our authentic selves that allows us to walk with our heads held high, while fighting back the tears.
DeleteThank you Elaine for your kind words, it's truly appreciated.
All the best ~ #FatherlessBritain
Insightful article piece. Thank you for the awareness of the issue’s fathers face today. Good luck with the fight, the impact will be beneficial to many.
ReplyDeleteThank you for taking the time to read the article and posting a comment, it's much appreciated.
ReplyDeleteYou are correct as in, hopefully as and when this story comes to the public consciousness within it's entirety, then the consequence's on the rest of society of having a fatherless society will come to light. Youth on youth violence, safety of our daughters, and the fact of how the state are breaching the human rights of all us in their behaviours.
Thank you ~ #FatherlessBritain
Hey you, very touching story. It's never a good feeling for someone to endure such emotions; hope you'll find comfort in the thought that one day when you least expect, the joy of being a dad will be yours again.
ReplyDeleteGreetings Mavroula, thank you. You're right. It's been such a heart breaking, emotional roller coaster, that it would impossible to describe here in just a few paragraphs.
DeleteI don't know if anyone ever gets over this type of, and level of abuse.
When you experience so much abuse from a person who you once trusted with so much, it makes it very hard to trust anyone, especially when you begin to understand what you've experienced from the supposed professionals knowing you're always going to get a hiding for a number of biased reasons.
I pray for that one day of being a dad once again, with some level of peace.
Thanks for taking the time to post your comment here Mavroula. It's very much appreciated.
Thank you, all the ~ #FatherlessBritain
Nicholas, I hope the stars, along with your amazing your determination, in this hell of a journey, will lined up your way
ReplyDeleteRead how the UK has adopted a system from America that alienates men saying, woman's allegation's have to be believed, all be them being unproven, and the man has to prove his innocence. Post title, the Duluth Model #FatherlessBritain
Deletehttp://www.fatherlessbritain.uk/2024/06 /duluth-model
Thanks Avid. Your message of support is very much appreciated my friend.
ReplyDeleteThank you ~ #FatherlessBritain
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Thank you for pointing me to your blog. Wow is all I can say. From my own experience and from talking to others this is all too common in what I know call the Demonic Services. Some fractions of Waltham Forest need to be exposed. We are a strong people and no matter how much they try, they will never succeed in the breakdown of the family. Keep up the good work, we are overcomers!
ReplyDeleteIt's been a whirlwind to read your story, Nick, which makes me wonder how you have got through it. I hope that the MPs related answer to this and don't leave it unresolved. In any case you have clearly reached and made a difference to many people, not least of all fathers not rightfully separated from their children.
ReplyDeleteThank you. Along with many night's of tears, I can only say that its through God's grace, and guidance that I've come this far.
DeleteIn regards to the MP's. They have already shown me clearly that they are not going to do a thing to help me, and due to their position with lain Duncan Smith being the current MP at the time of me approaching him, and a former Tory, conservative leader, and Dominic Rabb, not only being a trained and qualified lawyer, but being the former two time deputy Prime Minister during the period of when I approached them, I believe this is what's known as, miss conduct while in public office. So no, they're not going to be interested addressing anything I've got to say.
Thanks for your support and comments here, it's truly, much appreciated.
Regaurds ~#FatherlessBritain