"The Effects of Father-Child Parental Alienation"

Unfortunately relationships breakup every day. Unfortunately, when relationships do breakup, very often fathers unfairly become alienated from their children, often, for long periods of time. These scenarios are exacerbated due the bias system none as, the Duluth Wheel Model, which we would encourage you to read after you've finished reading this page.

The Duluth Wheel Model teaches and encourages the professional’s involved, to uphold any claims of domestic abuse by the mother, with the man unlike the normal rule of law, having to prove his innocents, creating the assumptions of guilt, and narratives in society as a whole that men are abusers and women are victims.

Remember the poem; “Girls and boys, sugar and spice,” attributed by scholars of the original children’s version of this poem to the English poet, Robert Southey (1774–1843).

Verse 2

What are little boys made of, made of?
What are little boys made of?
Snips and snails and puppy-dog tails;
That’s what little boys are made of.

Verse 3

What are little girls made of, made of?
What are little girls made of?
Sugar and spice and everything nice;
That’s what little girls are made of.

The sudden removal of Fathers

The sudden removal of a loving father from a child's life due to false accusations by the mother has profound psychological and emotional effects on the children, affecting both boy’s and girl’s individually and in particular way’s. This phenomenon, often seen in the context of contentious family separations and custody battles, has been documented to result in a range of adverse outcomes.

Psychological and Emotional Effects

Anxiety and Depression

Children, especially boys, who experience the abrupt absence of their fathers often show increased levels of anxiety and depression. Research has demonstrated that these children are more likely to suffer from emotional distress, which can manifest as sadness, withdrawal, and a sense of abandonment (Amato & Gilbreth, 1999).

Behavioural Problems

Boys, in particular, may exhibit increased behavioural problems following the sudden loss of their father. This includes heightened aggression, defiance, and issues with authority figures. Such behavioural problems are often a direct response to the emotional turmoil and instability caused by the absence of a parental figure (Lamb, 2010).

Girls who lose a loving father suddenly may experience heightened levels of anxiety and depression. The absence of a supportive father figure can create a sense of instability and insecurity, leading to feelings of sadness, fear, and abandonment (Amato, 2000).

Academic Challenges

The emotional and psychological stress from losing a father can also affect academic performance. Boys may struggle with concentration, leading to poorer grades and disengagement from school activities. This academic decline is linked to the lack of a stable and supportive home environment (Coley, 2001).

Identity and Self-Esteem Issues

Fathers play a crucial role in the development of a child's identity and self-esteem. Boys, in particular, often look to their fathers as role models. When a father is suddenly removed from their lives, boys may struggle with identity issues and low self-esteem, feeling uncertain about their role within the family and in society (Pleck, 2010).

As stated, the fact that fathers often play a critical role in the development of a child’s identity and self-esteem, girls in particular look to their fathers for affirmation and validation. When a father is suddenly removed, it can lead to identity confusion and low self-esteem, making girls feel less valued and supported (Pleck, 2010).

Long-Term Consequences

Relationship Difficulties

The impact of a father’s sudden absence often extends into adulthood, affecting the child's ability to form and maintain healthy relationships. Boys who experience losing their fathers in this manner, often have difficulties with trust and intimacy, which very often leads to challenges in their romantic and social lives (Amato, 2001).

The removal of a father often leads to trust issues and difficulties in forming and maintaining relationships. Girls may struggle with trusting others, including peers and future romantic partners, due to the betrayal they perceive from the unjust removal of their father (Lamb, 2010). This can result in long-term challenges in building healthy and stable relationships.

Girls without a father figure often become more susceptible to engaging in risky behaviours, such as early sexual activity, substance abuse, and delinquency. The absence of a father’s guidance and supervision can contribute to poor decision-making and increased vulnerability to negative influences (Ellis et al., 2003).

Mental Health

Long-term mental health issues are common among girls who lose their fathers suddenly. The unresolved grief and emotional pain can lead to chronic mental health problems such as anxiety disorders, depression, and even post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) (Harper & Fine, 2006).

Long-term mental health issues are equally common among boys who lose their fathers suddenly. The unresolved grief and emotional pain can lead to chronic mental health problems such as anxiety disorders, depression, and even post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) (Harper & Fine, 2006).

As with girls, boys who grow up without a father figure may and often face challenges in forming healthy relationships. They may struggle with trust issues, have difficulties in their interactions with peers, and experience problems in future romantic relationships. The absence of a father can lead to a lack of guidance on how to form and maintain these relationships (Lamb, 2010).

Increased Risk of Legal Issues

There is evidence suggesting that boys who grow up without their fathers are at a higher risk of encountering legal issues. The lack of a positive male role model can lead to poor decision-making and susceptibility to peer pressure, resulting in criminal behaviour (Harper & McLanahan, 2004).

Research and Statistics

Office for National Statistics (ONS)

According to the Office for National Statistics, children in single-parent households are more likely to experience poverty and social disadvantage, which are correlated with the negative outcomes mentioned above (ONS, 2019). The absence of a father figure exacerbates these issues, particularly for boys who are deprived of a positive male role model.

Empirical Studies

A study by Amato and Gilbreth (1999) highlights that consistent father involvement, regardless of marital status, is crucial for a child's well-being. Their meta-analysis indicates that children with involved fathers tend to have better social and academic outcomes compared to those without.

Conclusion

The sudden removal of a loving father from a child's life due to false accusations by the mother can lead to significant psychological and emotional distress, particularly for boys. The impacts range from immediate emotional issues to long-term challenges in personal development and social behaviour. Addressing these issues requires a nuanced understanding of family dynamics and the implementation of support systems for affected children.

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References

- Amato, P. R., & Gilbreth, J. G. (1999). Non-resident Fathers and Children's Well-Being: A Meta-Analysis. *Journal of Marriage and Family*, 61(3), 557-573.

- Amato, P. R. (2001). Children of Divorce in the 1990s: An Update of the Amato and Keith (1991) Meta-Analysis. *Journal of Family Psychology Articles*, 15(3), 355-370.

- Coley, R. L. (2001). (In)visible Men: Emerging Research on Low-Income, Unmarried, and Minority Fathers. *American Psychologist*, 56(9), 743-753.

- Harper, C. C., & McLanahan, S. S. (2004). Father Absence and Youth Incarceration. *Journal of Research on Adolescence*, 14(3), 369-397.

- Lamb, M. E. (2010). The Role of the Father in Child Development. *John Wiley & Sons*.

- Office for National Statistics (ONS). (2019). Families and Households in the UK: 2019. Retrieved from  people, population, and community, births, deaths, and marriages families, bulletins, families and house holds 2019  (Office for National Statistics (2019). Families and households in the UK - Office for National Statistics. [online] Office for National Statistics: 

- Pleck, J. H. (2010). Paternal Involvement: Revised Conceptualization and Theoretical Linkages with Child Outcomes. In M. E. Lamb (Ed.), *The Role of the Father in Child Development* (5th ed., pp. 58-93). John Wiley & Sons.

Amato, 2001

Amato, P.R. and Sobolewski, J.M. (2001). The Effects of Divorce and Marital Discord on Adult Children’s Psychological Well Being. American Sociological Review, [online] 66(6), pp.900–921. doi: https://doi.org/10.2307/3088878.

‌Ellis et al., 2003 

Ellis, B.J., Bates, J.E., Dodge, K.A., Fergusson, D.M., Horwood, L.J., Pettit, G.S. and Woodward, L. (2003). Does father absence place daughters at special risk for early sexual activity and teenage pregnancy? Child development, [online] 74(3), pp.801–21. doi:https://doi.org/10.1111/1467-8624.00569.

‌ Harper & Fine, 2006

Simmons, C., Steinberg, L., Frick, P.J. and Cauffman, E. (2018). The differential influence of absent and harsh fathers on juvenile delinquency. Journal of Adolescence, [online] 62, pp.9–17. doi:https://doi.org/10.1016/j.adolescence.2017.10.010.

For a clear example of how the Duluth Wheel Model is being implemented and used to legally abuse men to the detriment of society, view the page Father's Day 2021

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